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vanloo

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2011-02-08 10-50-12

A few questions I've been on a lot of message boards / blog sites for the past 10 years. Most of the people in the online communities that I've joined are nice, welcoming, & genuinely enjoy decent conversations. Some are funny, some sexy (perhaps a little raunchy just for fun), & some serious, but overall, good-natured. I've ventured onto a few times & I'm hesitant to post anywhere here, but I am wary of due to the fact that many responses are nasty & mean spirited. I can laugh at people (including myself) with the best of them, but to be so condescending & self-righteous is absurd. The way some people slam others for spelling errors, accidentally posting twice, or posting in the wrong forum is juvenile. So my questions: Why are there so many people that exude such hatred? Is it because they are secretly miserable & can vent their frustrations behind the cloak of obscure screen name like hot4u (no offense if there's a hot4u). Don't these self-righteous women realize that posting hateful, aggressive responses gives closed-minded heterosexual people more fuel for the fire in thinking that all lesbians are angry, militant, frustrated women? Just be nice & forgiving for once. Is it that hard? I mean, I was an English major & I'm a journalist for a fairly reputable newspaper (I'm sure that a few people will seize this opportunity to accuse me of writing for a piece of junk rag) & I make plenty of mistakes, particularly online. No has ever beaten me up in other forums for a typo nor would I dream of doing that to someone else, no matter how glaring the error. I am sure that I will be attacked, yet I don't mean anything personal, & I certainly don't want to be confrontational. I was just wondering if anyone can give me some insight as to why this is so different from other forums. Sometimes people sign onto these message boards to reach out to others because they feel al Think about how many lesbian women feel as if they have no around them with whom they can identify. word can make or break an individual. I guess that's my cents & I can feel comfortable saying it because no knows mad_world. I wish you all well & would love some meaningful dialog if anyone's interested.
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2011-02-10 22-39-27

Interesting. Text on a screen is just that, and yet somehow in this context, it can make a community - and in this community, in this place, text becomes more. It's personality, conversation - and also easily taken out of context. Nuance doesn't translate well in text, I've found (not that we're always subtle!) It can make true conversations, and true understanding of other people, tricky. Your own post gives some examples of what I mean... you yourself just came in here ing at least some of us nasty, mean spirited, hateful and juvenile. You chide people who vent their frustrations "behind the cloak of an obscure screen name" - then go on to say the only reason you feel comfortable posting is because non-one knows your obscure screen name. Then you say you're sure that you will be attacked, in the same sentence that says you don't want to be confrontational. Here we have a group of people. Anonymous, for the most part, and we're scattered all over the world. But we do kind of know each other, and we're pretty nice to new people, unless they manage to punch someone's special button - and it only takes person, out of hundreds, to stir up a shitstorm. You don't have to be a journalist or an English major to put together a decent sentence. If I like the dialog, or it's a fun poll, I'm in. Sometimes it gets snarky in here, true - but usually in a creative and friendly way. I don't often see people - well, except some of our more virulent trolls - "exude hatred." I often make typos and post incorrectly, and no has "slammed" me. Of course, sometimes we're not so nice to bi-curious straight married ladies who demand we find them a woman to fuck RIGHT NOW! - but I digress... Read below - what in today's thread seems nasty and mean-spirited to you? I don't always agree with everything said here, and everyone doesn't always agree with me. I take things said on here in stride, or at least with a huge grain of salt. I think a lot about online communities, so I like the dialog.
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brouillard

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2011-02-12 13-34-11

I don't think this forum is that mean. It's certainly less mean than a lot of the others like politics where the issues might provoke heated arguments. However it is very heavily trolled as are all the queer forums. Probably even more so than or Qufo because I'm pretty sure the troll personality is usually a young man and barging in to a "gay" space is well, gay whereas harassing queer women might seem more kosher. So bear in mind that many responses are to trolls including those that seem to be women but are know to regular posters not to be. I do share your loathing for people who correct grammar and spelling ( because it's just the internet not a thesis paper) but there are people like that all over. It's a common type of nitpicking. As to the fuel for the fire argument most straight people are actually gay friendly. As to the few that aren't or have some particular animosity toward gay people why would anyone gay or straight care what they think? That's like saying people should care more about bigots in general, racists, people who won't hire older people for jobs etc. Those people are a minority and it hardly makes sense to cater to them. Any straight people reading this forum are either trolls or people who are legitimately curious/or questioning. I generally do advocate being nice to curious/questioning people because any homophobic statements they make might be self loathing. There is a limit though. I went out of my way to be nice to a gay Born Again in Bifo other people were flaming. Hatred is inexcusable but self hatred just makes me feel pity.
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A few answers? a) I don't actually give a rip what homophobic hetero strangers choose to generalize about, based on something they read in a post on CL. Moot point. b) I believe you're vastly overstating the occurrence of "hatred" in this fo. (I'm not counting trolls who come in specifiy to upset people.) c) People online, as in life, tend to reap what they sow. When they come in with attitude, they get back attitude. When they come in with respect, they get back respect. Just like anywhere else. d) I've worked in and around journalism (reputable and otherwise) for over 20 years and no on has ever said mean things about my spelling or grammar. Nor do I do that to other people. So I have no idea why it would happen to you. e) Maybe ain't the venue for you. Me, I appreciate the exchange of ideas that happens here, the support that people *often* show for others, and the weird, funny and thoughtful stuff that people have to say. f) word can make or break an individual? In a public internet forum? Come on, humans are resilient. Give us all some credit for being adults, able to make adult decisions about who we talk with, and how.
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